Who did wrong here in this situation?

Really email? this is how you communicate? the written word can be read angrily when it's intentions don't mean so (bet you're thinking I'm anti you now). Stop emailing, pick up the phone and talk, express in words what you mean. You're both wrong and interpreting each other in the worst light because you're reading it the way "each of you" feel the other would speak to you. This isnt to say she isnt a total *****, but pick up the phone or talk face to face, text and email is not an adult or true conversation. come on