How can I stop being angry at an abusive stepdad?

Wow man it sounds like a complete repeat of how my step-dad was to me. He was a monster and a very verbally abusive man and I believe he saw me as some sort of threat because I was another man under "his roof" It sucks man and I feel your pain. You're in a position of powerlessness and dont have any control over your situation other then too learn and accept that your step-father is truly an . My stepfather did the same thing. He would say the most aweful things to me when nobody else was around, putting me down, making me out to be the worst person in the world eventhough I knew it wasnt true. He would try very hard to make himself look good to everybody else so I would look like the one who was crazy. Its very sick and very sadistic and really my stepfather is a BAD alcoholic and would have a drink in his hand the minute he walked in the door after work. Very manipulative, very calculating and the one who REALLY had issues! Deep down hes a very angry and unhappy person himself and took it out on me. He also had a father who did the same thing to him and felt justified or that was his excuse to do it to me. That rage will only eat you up man. I know it did and still does for me. We are victims of a abuse and it sucks, but whats helped me has been to turn it around and accept this and that I dont have to be like him. It sounds weird, but pray for him! Hes sick and you dont have to be like that! Anger is the most powerful and dangerous emotion that can destroy a person and everyone around them. I know your stuck under that roof and HES NOT EVEN YOUR DAD! Stay away from the house and him as much as you can I know I did. The guy was so sick, it was like he couldnt understand why I didnt want to be around him and couldnt take any responsibility and blame for the things he said and did. Thats the definition of a truly abusive person. I havent seen him in 5 years and I feel great! He still almost begs me to come home?! I just dont get him?